If you are seeking a roommate, we encourage students to check out offcampushousing.msu.edu ‘s roommate matching function.

Living in shared spaces successfully begins by acknowledging multiple sets of values and experiences.  New or prospective roommates should consider 9 key areas:

1. Personal Values
   
   MSU students come from all walks of life. Having early discussions about identities and values is paramount to understanding difference and respecting beliefs.

2. Guests
   
   Expectations around having visitors is important.  Are guests permitted?  How long can they stay?  What spaces will they occupy?  Does the gender of the guest(s) matter?  What behaviors are frowned upon.

3. Cleanliness
   
   Everyone has their own idea of what ‘clean’ means and what the cleaning process should look like. It's important to discuss all needs and incorporate some flexibility when it comes to cleaning schedules and personal responsibilities in keeping things tidy.

4. Conflict Management Style
   
   Conflict is nearly unavoidable when people share a dwelling. Having conversations about how individuals have managed conflict in past situations is critical.  Having those discussions before conflicts arise is equally important.  Setting expectations early can help stop problems from developing.

5. Financial Arrangements
   
   While many landlords deal with each tenant individually, lots of dwellings have shared arrangements (one check for monthly leases, combined billing for utilities, etc.)  Within days of moving in, or ideally before moving in, roommates should decide how contributions to these payments will be handled, who will make the actual payment, etc.  Writing this down and posting it in a common area may be helpful.

6. Personal Items & Sharing
   
   Tenants may decide to bring or purchase items for shared spaces and common areas including kitchens and living spaces. Having an early discussion about which items are free for everyone to utilize versus which items are marked for personal use only is a good idea.

7. Use of Alcohol or Other Drugs
   
   The use of alcohol and other drugs is another key discussion to have.  While some roommates may balk at this and make assumptions about their fellow students, it’s important to be on the same page. Some students may come from backgrounds or experiences of abuse/misuse and would prefer to not have substances in the home. Other students may view usage as situational or without limit.

8. Noise
   
   Personal noise levels, with or without guests, is an additional point to negotiate. Everyone deserves the ability to be able to study or spend their time freely without being subjected to excessive or unexpected noise from those they live with. Discussing appropriate times for noise levels to be reduced or overall general volume may help avoid unnecessary tension or conflict.

9. Pets and Their Care
   
   Many students choose their off campus dwellings because they are eager to have a pet.  This can be a major responsibility.  Some spaces may be pet friendly or someone in the living space may have a service animal/emotional support animal. Discussing care for the animal and expectations around interactions are necessary to ensure the success of all roommates, including the animal itself.